Woman asked to refund Tinder date $90 after refusing sex

A man was shamed on social media after sending abusive text messages to a young woman he met on Tinder when she refused to sleep with him on their first date.

New Jersey woman Arielle Musa arranged to met a man named Endri for a drink after chatting to him on the controversial dating app.

A woman shares abusive text messages she received from her Tinder date after refusing to sleep with him. Photo: Supplied
A woman shares abusive text messages she received from her Tinder date after refusing to sleep with him. Photo: Supplied

At the end of the evening Ms Musa declined her date’s offer for sex, which she said led to the man acting like a child who did not get his way.

Endri sent the woman he was trying to lure into bed a string of abusive text messages in which he insulted her, called her obscene names and made racist remarks.

Endri asks the Arielle to pay him back the $90 he spent on for his fuel and drinks for the date.
Endri asks the Arielle to pay him back the $90 he spent on for his fuel and drinks for the date.

Arielle shared the vile messages with her friend who posted the abuse on her Twitter account with the caption: “Y'all, my friend went on a date with some psychopath. This is why I rarely go on dates. Men feel so entitled”.

Endri begins the conversation telling the woman he was disappointed they didn’t do the deed, saying: “This sucks.. I really wanted to hook up with you.”

Then the man added: “Lol why are you being like that.. You seem like a girl that seeks pleasure so why don't we just hook up?”

“Enjoy your youth because once you get used up nobody will want you and you will be alone forever. Squinty eyed g***”

When the woman insisted her answer was still no, her date asked: “Why are you so stuck up? Do you think you’re better than me?” before insisting he knows the “type of girl” she is.


When the woman asked, “Why are you being so salty? It's no big deal”, Endri told her she insulted him by turning him down when he spent money on gas and drinks, and asked her to pay him back the $90 he spent.

“Enjoy your youth because once you get used up nobody will want you and you will be alone forever,” he told her, adding: “trust me.. your family doesn’t even love you.”

Unfazed by the man’s harsh words, Arielle told him: “You can't possibly hurt my feelings you mean nothing to me.”

The tweet received almost 16,000 likes and 13,000 retweets since it was posted on Tuesday.

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