Has The Pandemic Turned You Into A 'Shouty' Parent? You're Not Alone.
Are you a ‘shouty parent’? If you’re anything like me, the honest answer is... sometimes. I try my hardest not to be, but I’ll confess, I do end up shouting up the stairs to get my children’s attention.
It’s mostly when I’ve asked them five or six times to put their shoes on for school, or brush their teeth – or to tell them again that dinner is ready.
I always regret it, and I resolve at the end of every day to be a better parent the next morning. But it’s been harder during the pandemic to keep my cool all the time. Like everybody else, I’m at the end of my rope – particularly after six months of trying to work from home while homeschooling.
I’m not alone, either. Social media is awash with distraught parents confessing they’ve found themselves losing their temper with their kids (and wishing they hadn’t). It’s also full of people witnessing parents shouting, and feeling bad for both the kids and the grown-ups.
“I wonder if it’s a sign of stress due to the pandemic,” one dad tweeted. “I’ve noticed parents shouting at their kids a lot more when I’m out with mine.”
Nanny and maternity nurse, Louenna Hood, who runs Nanny Louenna, told HuffPost UK being confined to the house for long periods of time with no breaks – as we’ve all experienced during lockdown – definitely makes tensions rise. “When you can’t see an end in sight to something, your anxieties rise and ultimately make you less tolerant and more likely to shout,” she said.
While it’s natural to feel guilty for shouting afterwards, she said what’s important is recognizing when we’re feeling like this and working on ways to “stay calm and see the bigger picture.”
So, what can parents and care givers do to keep their cool? Hood gave us her tips.
Take a deep breath.
“Sometimes, just giving yourself two breaths before reacting can avoid a rash shouty reply,” Hood recommended. “When things get stressful, say to...
