I'm a Celebrity's Richard Coles says partner's death left 'massive hole' in his life

Maura Higgins and Jane Moore took part in the trial while Tulisa was voted to do Wednesday's challenge.

Rev Richard Coles emotional discussing his partner's death. (ITV/Shutterstock)
Rev Richard Coles emotional discussing his partner's death. (ITV/Shutterstock)

I'm a Celebrity's Rev Richard Coles discussed the death of his former partner David in an emotional moment in the jungle on Tuesday.

The vicar said he knew what grief looked like but admitted it was like a "bomb" going off when it happens to you. David Oldham died in 2019 and Coles said it was a result of alcohol. The couple had been together since 2007 and embarked on a civil partnership in 2010.

In conversation with old friend Oti Mabuse who he met on Strictly, he said: "I miss him… I want him to walk in the door. I dream he walks in the door with Co-op bag. I said, 'I thought you were dead.' He said, 'I only went shopping. I'm not staying. I met someone else.' He’s just left a massive hole in my life and I’m living my life around that loss."

He has found love again since the death of his partner.

The grief revelation comes after the former Strictly pro discussed her how her daughter was born prematurely.

I'm a Celebrity's Maura Higgins was terrified when she saw the spiders. (ITV screengrab)
I'm a Celebrity's Maura Higgins was terrified when she saw the spiders. (ITV screengrab)

Earlier in the episode, hair-raising scenes captured the chilling screams of Maura Higgins in the trial.

Taking part in Fright at the End of the Tunnel were Higgins and Loose Women star Jane Moore. They had to work together to win stars for camp through water and creepy crawlies.

Tense scenes showed the former Love Island star breaking down as she is about to crawl through a tunnel packed with huge spiders. She screamed: "No! Spiders! I don't know if I can do it. There's an awful amount of spiders. Oh my God, no, no I can't."

From the sidelines, Ant and Dec try to keep Higgins calm and tell her to focus on her breathing ahead of diving into the spiders. They got six stars out of 12.

After much begging from the Geordie presenters, viewers finally voted for different people to take on a Bushtucker trial. Albeit still screaming and shrieking, Dean McCullough got 10 stars for camp which marked his new personal best.

It was the radio star's sixth Bushtucker trial in the series.

All of the celebrities got a taster of what a trial is really like when they climb aboard the fright bus. They had the chance to win some luxuries but they had to battle the bugs first. Tulisa was voted to do the trial on Wednesday after arguably screaming the loudest on the bus.

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  • Tulisa is named for the Bushtucker trial

    Tulisa is named the celebrity to face Shock Around the Clock after screaming her head off on the fright bus earlier this episode.

    It had been between Tulisa and Maura Higgins. "It is what it is," the N-Dubz singer says. "

  • Rev Richard Coles reveals he was mixed up with The Pet Shop Boys

    Rev Richard Coles amuses his campmates as he tells the time he was mistaken for one of The Pet Shop Boys.

    Of course he was in a band before he become a vicar. Just not The Pet Shop Boys!

  • Rev Richard Coles says death of late partner left 'massive hole in his life'

    Richard Coles discusses the death of his former partner David.

    The vicar says he knows what grief looks like but says it's like a bomb going off when it happens to you.

    He tells Mabuse: "I miss him… I want him to walk in the door. I dream he walks in the door with coop bag. I said, 'I thought you were dead.' He said, 'I only went shopping. I'm not staying. I met someone else.' He’s just left a massive hole in my life and I’m living my life around that loss.

  • Oti Mabuse and Rev Richard Coles in tears over premature birth story

    Tearful Oti Mabuse lays her heart on the line talking about her premature birth story with Rev Richard Coles.

    "The worst thing was," she says. "Is that every night you need to leave them. You need to leave your baby in someone else's hand. I can't wait for you to meet her."

    It's a very emotional moment. "They find comfort in your voice." She says, "For two months, every single day we’d sing church music."

    The rev shares his own story too: "I remember going once to baptise a little boy, a premature boy, he was born very premature, he was only just alive…"

    Coles fights back tears and Mabuse hugs him.

    He says: "I just remember he was this tiny little pulse of life, and David [his then partner] got a pipette of water and we blessed it, and we baptised him and he survived and now he’s a healthy young footballer, which is great! But I just felt so… it was such a precious thing."

    Mabuse says: "They are, my daughter was really, really tiny when she was born. It’s hell. It’s hell to be in the hospital, to hear those sounds, to not see your baby’s eyes for a week, it’s hell to constantly look for advice from the doctors."

  • Melvin Odoom's hilarious response to freezing jungle shower

    Melvin Odoom is not enjoying the freezing cold showers! It looks chilly.

  • The rev's socks are set on fire

    Rev Richard Coles' red socks catch on fire after he left them on the wood.

    Dean McCullough couldn't believe it when they were held up for everyone to see. His mouth is left hanging open.

  • It's six out of 12 trials

    Maura Higgins and Jane Moore get six stars out of the trial.

    "I wish we got more," Higgins says.

    Yet Ant and Dec says they should be "very proud" because they had completed a "tough" trial.

    Unfortunately they lost out where the Loose Women star skipped stars which were underwater, halving the chance of how many stars they could have got.

  • Maura Higgins shouts mud crabs are trying to eat her

    Maura Higgins complains the mud crabs are trying to eat her.

    "They're trying to eat me," she screeches. "They're trying to latch onto me."

  • Maura Higgins claims it is 'torture'

    Maura Higgins says the trial is "torture" before screaming over the bugs again.

    The Irish star is screaming the letters but Jane Moore can't seem to hear her properly. "A for a****hole," she screams at the star.

    Eventually Moore gets it: BOAT.

  • Maura Higgins cries over spiders

    Maura Higgins breaks down in tears over the spiders.

    Screaming, she tries to go in but she let one out by accident — sparking her to scream more.

    Before heading in, she cries out: "There's an awful amount of spiders. No, no, no I can't."

    The former Love Island star attacks the webs and screams as she looks for the word so Jane Moore can unlock the star.

  • Two stars

    After Jane Moore gets their first star, Maura Higgins can leave the frogs behind and head into the den with lizards.

    The Loose Women star misses one of the stars but she is going to work on getting the third.

  • Jane Moore heads underwater but Maura Higgins must face spiders

    Jane Moore dives beneath the water to start the trial.

    She's "Loose swimming" she jokes. Meanwhile, Maura Higgins is getting nervous because she's seen a spider.

  • Ant and Dec are happy it's not Dean McCullough doing the trial

    Ant and Dec are happy to get some fresh blood for the challenge after Dean McCullough did six trials out of nine.

    They inform Maura Higgins and Jane Moore that the fright bus revealed the celebrity cohort were the loudest and most squealing campmates they have ever had.

  • Maura Higgins is freaking out but Jane Moore is keen

    Maura Higgins' heart is racing as she heads to the trial with Jane Moore.

    "It'll be the washing up I haven't done," jokes the Loose Women star.

    They head over the bridge to join Ant and Dec for the trial. "We're strong women Jane, we can do it," she says. "Twelve meals."

    Moore is determined to do the trial — she wanted to get out of main camp and try it out. "I'm worried at the end of it," she says. "Shall we just lower our star expectation," she says after her words were cut off by screaming.

  • Check out Shock Around The Clock trial

    Get voting for Wednesday's trial Shock Around The Clock.

    Take a look at what it entails.

  • Barry McGuigan goes missing in I'm a Celeb

    Barry McGuigan went missing in the I'm a Celebrity jungle.

    Tulisa shares her concerns after she lost sight of him in the camp. The former boxer was planning to help her do the dishes but raced on ahead and then the N-Dubz singer lost him.

    She says: "Barry help out. Thing is with Barry he's speedy. I got down the bottom and I couldn't find him. Where's Barry?"

    "Barry, Barry, Barry," she continues in her pursuit to find him. "Where the hell is he? Barry you've gone too far!"

    McGuigan got lost in the I'm a Celeb jungle.

    "Sorry," apologises McGuigan.

    Ant and Dec can't resist making a joke about how McGuigan can't see and needs glasses — referring to the first trial where he was unable to see the padlocks. They capitalise on their joke from Byker Grove — the show that made them famous — where Dec's character says: "I cannot see!"

  • Danny Jones serenades I'm a Celebrity camp

    Delighted with his guitar from home, Danny Jones puts on a private gig for the whole of the I'm a Celebrity camp (and those watching at home).

    It hits the right notes with camp as many of the celebs sing along. Melvin Odoom enthuses over the music played by Jones which he says raised everyone's spirits.

    "Danny changed the whole vibe, one of the best nights we've had in camp," he says.

    Also among the items won from the frightful journey is a polaroid camera.

  • Dean McCullough sparkles in sequinned dress

    Dean McCullough put on a show as he dazzles in the sequin dress — one of the items from the frightful bus journey.

    "Giving it the Shirley Bassey," he says.

    Meanwhile, Jane Moore is disappointed with the spotty dress she has in her luggage haul.

  • Ant and Dec declare fright bus the 'best challenge ever'

    Maura Higgins, Tulisa and Barry McGuigan are the last to leave the frightful journey.

    The former boxer confesses it was "dreadful" and "vile". Meanwhile, the former Love Island star admits she is "traumatised". Tulisa is disappointed she's a "screamer".

    It's the final destination though and they're heading back to the jungle.

    From the sidelines, Ant and Dec declare it the "best challenge ever". They joke the celebrities face an even bigger challenge... carrying their own luggage.

  • Barry McGuigan tries to keep his cool

    Barry McGuigan tries to calm down the remaining passengers Maura Higgins and Tulisa.

    The former boxer remains calm in the chaos as hordes of green ants are dropping on them.

    "Scrape them off, come on," he advises.

  • Maura Higgins says 'I'm on the verge of a heart attack'

    Maura Higgins admits she's terrified on the fright bus. "I'm on the verge of a heart attack," she says.

    Danny Jones and Melvin Odoom meanwhile in the row in front are singing "I've got roaches in my pants".

    Screaming continues as the ride on the bus never seems to end for the stars competing for the luxury items.

  • Maura Higgins declares it's her worst birthday ever

    Screaming ensues.

    The celebrities are brushing themselves down as the insects rain down on them.

    In a hilarious turn, the stars sing Happy Birthday to Maura Higgins who declares it is the worst she has ever had.

  • Ant and Dec make Sunderland dig

    Ant and Dec compare the fright bus to going to Sunderland — their rival football team.

    The Geordies are big supporters of Newcastle United who are Sunderland's biggest rivals.

  • Take a sneak peek at the fright bus

    All aboard the fright bus!

    When we left the I'm a Celebrity jungle last night, the stars had been on the fright bus being covered in insects. How have they fared?

    Take a look at what's to come.

  • Maura Higgins' biggest I'm a Celebrity jungle fears

    Love Island's Maura Higgins is I'm a Celebrity's new campmate. (ITV)
    Love Island's Maura Higgins is I'm a Celebrity's new campmate. (ITV)

    Maura Higgins revealed her biggest fears ahead of starring on I'm a Celebrity.

    She said she was terrified of spiders and doing the eating challenge on the ITV jungle show. In Tuesday's episode, the former Love Island star will come face to face with spiders.

    We have already seen the TV star smash the eating trial. How will she fare with spiders?

    "I am absolutely petrified of the eating challenge and the one with the glass around your head with spiders in," she said ahead of the show. "Even talking about them, I start to sweat. I am not a nervous person, but this will be hard."

  • Maura Higgins surprises I'm a Celeb fans with her age

    I'm a Celebrity viewers were in disbelief that Maura Higgins had turned 34 in the jungle.

    She celebrated her birthday with a freezing cold shower and then she took out the dunny. The former Love Island star joked about her birthday in the jungle was totally different to how she has previously celebrated.

    One you won't forget then Maura?

    Read more from OK! magazine here.

  • What happened in I'm a Celebrity last night?

    Did you miss last night's episode? Don't worry, we've got you covered. Here's what you need to know ahead of I'm a Celebrity tonight.

    • Dean McCullough got 10 stars, his new personal best as he took on his sixth trial of the series so far.

    • Ant and Dec (and McCullough) begged for viewers to choose for someone else to do the trials (spoiler alert: it worked. On the spin off show Unpacked it was revealed Jane Moore and Maura Higgins are taking on the next trial.)

    • All of the celebrities got a taste for the trial on the fright bus where they are covered in insects and locked on a bus in a bid to win treats for camp.

    • Rev Richard Coles and GK Barry have struck up a friendship and got the giggles when scissoring was become topic of conversation.

  • Maura Higgins breaks down in I'm a Celebrity trial

    Hair-raising scenes capture the chilling screams of Maura Higgins in Tuesday's I'm a Celebrity's trial Fright at the End of the Tunnel.

    Tense scenes show the former Love Island star breaking down as she is about to crawl through a tunnel packed with huge spiders.

    She screams: "No! Spiders! I don't know if I can do it. There's an awful amount of spiders. Oh my God, no, no I can't."

    From the sidelines, Ant and Dec try to keep Higgins calm and tell her to focus on her breathing ahead of diving into the spiders.

    They explain that Jane Moore can't progress in the trial without the Love Island star doing her bit.

    Will we hear those famous words... I'm a Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here?

  • I'm a Celebrity stars go for thrilling ride on fright bus

    The I'm a Celebrity campers got a taste of what doing a Bushtucker trial is really like when they boarded the fright bus.

    After enjoying their dinner, celebrities were invited onto the bus to win treats for camp in Monday's episode. It was explained: "Tonight, you will all have the chance to win treats. However, to be in with a chance of winning, you will all need to take a trip on The Fright Bus!"

    They have the chance to win luggage, each containing essentials or a tasty snack.

    All they have to do is endure the bus and work in their rows to escape. Unfortunately those sat further back must ride for the longest. Poor Maura Higgins!

    So far we've seen the celebrities screaming as bugs were dropped on them. We can't wait to see how they fare in the ride that will play out in Tuesday's episode.

  • Maura Higgins and Jane Moore are doing tonight's I'm a Celeb trial

    Maura Higgins and Loose Women star Jane Moore are going to be doing Tuesday's I'm a Celebrity's trial Fright at the End of the Tunnel.

    Check out a sneak peek of what you can expect from tonight's grisly trial!

  • Dean McCullough isn't doing tonight's trial after 10 star victory

    Dean McCullough takes on his sixth Bushtucker trial. (ITV screengrab)
    Dean McCullough takes on his sixth Bushtucker trial. (ITV screengrab)

    Dean McCullough was finally not voted to do the Tuesday Bushtucker trial.

    Monday's episode saw the radio star take on his sixth trial. It was a huge amount of trials because there have only been nine so far this series.

    McCullough has been shrieking and screaming in fear while taking on each of the challenges. His lowest record number of stars was zero when he was teamed up with GK Barry.

    During the six trials, he even cried out "I'm a Celebrity... Get Me Out Of Here" twice. No, not because of insects or heights. The first time he used the infamous words were because of sand. The second time was because of fish guts.

    McCullough made a plea to viewers not to vote for him to do the next trial and to give someone else a go. He then went onto secure 10 stars, impressing Ant and Dec.

    Even the Geordie hosts have begged for viewers to vote for other celebrities to do trials. They joked they knew McCullough "too well" from seeing him at all the trials.

  • Coleen Rooney and Rebekah Vardy ‘run real risk’ of going to court again, lawyers reveal

    Coleen Rooney on I'm a Celebrity
    Coleen Rooney on I'm a Celebrity. (ITV screengrab)

    I'm a Celebrity's Coleen Rooney and her rival Rebekah Vardy "run the real risk" of falling out and even going back to court, lawyers told Yahoo.

    Legal experts Christian Smith, Partner and Head of Dispute Resolution at Seddons LLP, and David Wright, Associate at Seddons LLP, told Yahoo: "Whilst you may have thought Coleen Rooney and Rebekah Vardy would have both wished to move on after their bruising litigation this new very public discussion about each other runs the real risk that they could find themselves falling out very badly again and yet again facing each other in court."

    Rooney accused Rebekah Vardy's Instagram account for leaking information about her life to the press and she got the nickname "Wagatha Christie". Vardy sued her for libel but a judge at the High Court found Rooney's viral post to be "substantially true" in 2022. The latest in the long-running saga has seen Vardy appeal in November a recent ruling on Rooney's legal costs.

    Wagatha Christie — a term trademarked by Vardy — is back in the news as Rooney is the biggest I'm a Celebrity signing this year, rumoured to getting £1.5m for the stint.

    Read more here.

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